There is a phrase that sounds empowering at first but becomes increasingly troubling the more one reflects upon it. "My life." "My success." "My money." "My future." "My family." "My happiness." On the surface, there is absolutely nothing wrong with any of these aspirations. Personal responsibility remains important. Individual ambition matters. Hard work should be encouraged. Success should be celebrated. Societies flourish when people strive to improve themselves and provide better l...