My father-in-law lives with my young family but I don’t want to ‘sandwich parent’. What should I do? | Leading questions

You don’t have to compromise your or your child’s wellbeing, advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith writes. Whatever happens, you need better information going forward Read more Leading questions At my suggestion, my husband and I moved his father to live in a granny annexe of our home. This was for two reasons. First, he was experiencing health issues and getting visibly older and we thought he’d end up needing to live with us eventually. Second, we wanted to start a family and I naively th...

By Eleanor Gordon-Smith