I tried to be a '90s butter mom.' I'm now a more present parent, but it also reminded me that social media is idealized.

The author tried the "90s butter mom" parenting trend for a month. Courtesy of Annabel Lee I tried the "90s butter mom" parenting trend for a month. During that time, I cooked more, spent less time online, and tried to embrace the joy of parenting. Overall, the charm of the trend lies in the nostalgia and the reminder to be present with our kids. My parenting style can be described as a tired mother, trying her best. My approach is mostly gentle and laid-back, with flashes of Type-A-style o...